Hey Famz u good?
Ok, so I want talk to you about putting pressure on yourself. Pressure is something that can cause a lot of stress and anxiety, especially when it's coming from the outside. Sometimes you are going to have to say no and be ok with that. Often times as women, moms, wives, daughters, sisters etc., we feel that we have to bear everyone else's burdens when God never told us to carry that heaviness. He told us to cast our cares on Him, for He cares for us 1 Peter 5:7. We have to know that when we got out of the realm of what we are capable to do, we start to take on things that we were never meant to carry and it starts to affect our health, relationships and our daily lives.
We must tarry one for another yes, but we can't allow someone else's emergencies to be our emergency. For example, paying someone else's rent because they spent their rent money on a new outfit, that's not your problem lol, say no and breathe. Release the pressure off of yourself and be honest with that person. It's ok to be of help when the situation is right, it's not ok to enable bad decisions, bad habits and bad behaviors.
So today, release the pressure of being everything to everybody, you are not the capital GOD! Breathe through your decisions and thought process before saying yes or no, take the pressure off. Life is about decisions and choices, not pressure. Be good to yourself and those around you but, remember, do not enable. Have a fantabulous day, remember that Jesus is Lord, He loves you and so do I. Thanks for joining me today. Love y'all to life.
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